I always thought an A would be unforgivable by me as well. Ironically, told my best friend that about 5 hours before W told me of her A. You honestly don't know what you'll do until confronted with it.

For what my advice is worth, I think you're taking the exact right stance with all of this.

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.