I hate to say it, I know how you feel about it, but are you sure she's not having an A? Out a few nights a week. Taking off her ring and offering lame excuses. MC is now a 'bitch' session.
I don't want to downplay the positives, and your W may very well just be trying to regain her sense of self. As you've mentioned, you were controlling. Hopefully she can find and define herself within the context of being married to you. And you're doing a great job of being patient as she works through this.
I guess I just don't want you to be blindsided if she were to ever reveal an A.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
