I can somewhat relate, my W had an A and is now home, it's been three weeks and still nothing here either in the intimacy area from her direction. Although she doesn't even mention OM. I wonder if she's just thinking it and not saying it. We are getting along o.k. but, It hurts to not have any intimacy from her at all, no hug's, no kisses, no hand holding, not an I love you, NOTHING ! I am trying to ba patient as well, for the sake of our kids and wonderful past. My help to you, be patient, but do not let yourself be hurt, stand up for what you feel. Good Luck !
