Mojo, I think you don't want to file because you initiated the breakup. Even though you didn't leave, you're the one who made it happen. I think it's guilt and wanting to be a nice gal, and just not wanting to deal with him, or take the trouble. Also you're thinking there will be the lawyer's expense and you still might not get the $$. Research this and see if there is an agency that can help you. Hairdog, where should she go for info? You really ought to go after the child support, and I think you know it.
