Pudmuddle,

Thanks for stopping by! I do appreciate my very wise friends and you are most welcome to join me any time. \:\)

About the wierd OW/fiancee thing...we'll see. She supposedly married a young'un who is very self absorbed. I don't see the appeal in hanging out with ex-hookups, but then again, I would never have considered going after a married man either. ICK.

Blech, all the stuff we wonder about, worry about and none of it is under our control. That's where we need to take over and keep up with GALing and move our attention to positive things that ARE in our control.

I'm glad your H cut her off. I hope he keeps it that way and continues working his tail off to be the husband you need and deserve.


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y