It could be that he is holding on to something... or it could be that two people can only be SOOOO close, kwim? I mean, no matter how close you are to someone, there will be places you cannot go in them. Y'all are just now correcting the SSM situation, and now you have the cancer to deal with. It will take time to sort things out.
Lilly,
I can't talk but a second. I know what you're but just by judging what I know about IC and what goes on behind the scenes of the message board...he's holding onto something. I've seen the before and after of him telling me the whole thing with his dad...I've seen the before and after of him telling me about the cancer...and I'm seeing the before of ?????? that is still eating at him.
Originally Posted By: Lillieperl
When I asked if you ever felt shut out or like an outsider before, I meant before you married. In childhood, at school, etc.
I'll have to think about this and get back when time permits...but first reaction would be to say "no"
