Thank you all so much for the responses...they really do help. The one problem I'm having above all else is giving space when we are in the same household. I can usually escape for a night or two during the week...and I think (hope) this helps. It's strange during the days around the kids as we act normal (aside from any physical affection). We are very friendly and then at night, we don't talk too much but when we do it is also friendly. It's extremely frustrating. I have a week vacation coming up after Christmas...I am thinking of getting away for the week to really give some space. Is this a good idea?
