Hi Aud,

I enjoy reading your thread, and you have very wise people here as friends. Many of the things said here have inspired me again to keep piecing my heart out.

I too, keep wondering about OW, especially the way my H just cut her off, she doesn't know his cell #(he changed it) and he got rid of the emails she knows, and returned her key, so as far as I know there is NO contact. And I have to believe that until proven wrong.

I do see that your H is trying to keep you posted on his whereabouts, that is good. And I wouldn't worry too much about the OW/Fiance relationship, that will fizzle out, especially because they will have to get on with their own lives soon too. I think she is trying to make it look like she is all desirable having old hookups as friends still...that's gotta make her new man kind if wary...

Hang in there Aud.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.