Patick, Sorry I can't be of much help to you. I wouldn't even know where to begin. Legally I don't think she can keep you out of the house if your name is on the deed, but you might be going back into a hornet's nest if you just move in without her approval. Common DBing advice says don't help them in any way. If she wants out then she should be the one to move, not you, but now that you're out you are going to have to weigh the pros and cons carefully. Perhaps approach it from a financial standpoint?? I really don't know.
OK - I gave blood today so I need some nonalcoholic beverages to get my volume back up without making me loopy. Anybody know any good virgin drinks??
OK - who ate all the sausage balls??? Jak?? There were 60 of them so I don't think it was her alone! No coming by and eating the snacks without saying hello at least!
BFM
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