Braveheart as much as we try to put it all behind us it is hard, as I will tell you the latest, just when we were getting comfy in our new home cracking on and enjoying life up he pops and off we go again. X hasn't has I have said bothered with son since end of march, he sent son a birthday card in august and that was it, son has had some missed calls on his mobile but only because the number was with-held and these calls were like after midnight and in the early hours of the morning., alas it turns out it was his dad, who clearly didn't want son to know otherwise he would have not held his number, son will only answer the calls if he recognizes the number so therefore he hasn't answered the calls and I think there could have possibly been around ten since march. Anyhow I have just had a call from my friends husband, me and his wife used to be quite friendly and close before all this happened with xh and I can see why he as gone to them, but I have to say I haven't seen much of this friend in the last two years as she changed her job and so we have sort of grown apart, but her husband used to drop son off at school for me and pick him up so he is aware of the situation with the ex. anyhow he called and said my ex has just been to see him and said he did know which village we were living in and he didn't know whereabouts, he had no numbers to contact us and he has been ringing son's phone but son won't answer, he as some presents for son for christmas and was wondering if this guy had any idea for getting them to his son, ie he wanted him to drop them off for him, he as told him that he would contact us and see what we say. this is not good enough, he that is the ex has snooped and found out more or less where we have moved to, he is round at my mates enquiring if they know where we have moved to and what my numbers are, he should have my mobile unless he as deleted it,and he darned well wants to contact son after 9 months of not talking, and evicting us from his damn house why can't he leave us alone, I spoke to son and he said he doesn't want to hear from him and he can shove his gifts far and wide, he also told me to tell the guy to let him know he doesnt want to see him, as son said this is so much like last year, ex left it until the last minute to contact son and see what he wanted for christmas, then he took him on a weekend break in march and he hasn't heard or seen of him since. Hope the ex is hurting like son says why bother just because it is christmas he as been alive all last year as well, and then it wasn't important to have a relationship with him so son doesn't want one now. H that is ex has got to have realised he as lost his son, and he has made it worse by throwing us out, this is also the first time he as contacted this friend since we split up, and he went on his own so obviously new wifey doesn't know he is going to friends that were his friends when he was with me. I just know it is all going to erupt again.
