I'm on it baby...let me get out my chinese translation book so it will really be culturally sensitive.

Having been in this sitch before (spouse and OW) I just try to assume it's WORSE for her (OW) than it is for me. I attempt to look carefree and laugh alot. In other words fake it til ya make it.

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby