Miss IC, some of your anxiety is YOURS to deal with... YOU'RE bringing it to the table on your own. You can cope, I know it.
Y'all are great!
Lilly,
We're closer but only time will tell if we're back on track. I agree that a lot of my anxiety is mine to deal with and I bring it upon myself. The part that IC does not seem to totally grasp is that his actions still play a huge part in creating even more anxiety for me. - I'm sorry to tell ya Corri, but IC still has those avoidance issues - Not only with the health issues but everything in general. The little red wagon analogy...sometimes his avoidance leads me feel like I'm alone sitting there waiting. This creates anxiety for me...I don't really know how to explain it and I've said it before...at times he makes me feel like an outsider to his life. I'm not looking to be apart of his every waking thought but I'm also not going to be an after thought either. kwim?
