You're welcome. I think the different levels of tolerance for cleanliness are a common conflict in many Rs. If you feel she is truly pulling her weight, and you're doing what you can, then if she's still uncomfortable with her surroundings, it's worth it to get help. If she's just trying to get out of work or looking for things to complain about for the sake of complaining, those are separate issues. Just remember we all need some down time for keeping ourselves sane.
I think the different levels of tolerance for cleanliness are a common conflict in many Rs. If you feel she is truly pulling her weight, and you're doing what you can, then if she's still uncomfortable with her surroundings, it's worth it to get help. If she's just trying to get out of work or looking for things to complain about for the sake of complaining, those are separate issues. Just remember we all need some down time for keeping ourselves sane.