Last night my H actually talked to me for a long time. Told me he hadn't felt loved by me. Said I didn't make myself vulnerable enough. I guess I have my protective armor on too often. So I'm trying to show my vulnerability more and allow myself to get hurt. I'm giving first and not demanding things. That's why I'm telling you maybe it's ok to open up with the risk of getting hurt.
I'm going to suggest you read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It might really open you eyes to how you can go about showing love to your husband and how he can feel it. After reading it try to think about yourself and how you feel it. Then think about him. Then see if you can get him to tell you what makes him feel loved.
If anything this will help you and your relationships in the future no matter how your future ends up.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
