I'm in piecing too, so I lurk on your thread from time to time. I am so sorry your sitch has come to this point. While I know that DR ordinarily discourages us from snooping, I don't blame you that you did, and I have a lot of respect for you for the way you handled it.
I don't know how many children you have, or their ages, but by the amount of strength and determination you have demonstrated on this board, I know that you are up to the challenge to being the best parent for them.
Gracious and loving God, we raise Cat and her family to you in prayer. Envelop her with your peace; ground her in your strength; steel her with your unending love. Help us to be the support she needs in the midst of this storm.
We thank you for each and every member of this community. We thank you for opening our hearts and our minds and our eyes. Amen.