well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[limbo]

((((Cat))))

God you are so strong, You handled that whole thing with dignity and strength, I am not sure I would have been able to handle it that way!
You and your kids will be fine because they have you in there corner, you will make sure that they come through this, and one day somewhere down the line there will be someone waiting for you who will treat you the way you should be!!

Take care of yourself!