Wow Cat!! Unbelievable. What a coward! Like a 10 year old boy. Yes, it's time to stop loving him like you've never been hurt. I'm sorry your children will suffer from growing up in a broken home, but you have tried everything and then some. It is time for self-preservation. Time for dignity and the strength to say no more. No more childish behavior, no more acceptance of wrong-doings, no more being Mommy to a man who won't be a man.

You do deserve much more and a much better man. It is time to really move on. I'm sorry for your pain.