NoDirection, Hey man, I totally understand where you are coming from, it was only through time, that I realized that I didn't want to be with the person that my W has become. I am in a better place, now. I pray the same for you.
Life is always uncertain, you never know what is going to happen, but if you have the Lord on your side, then you know that sooner or later, everything is going to be Okay.
The battle for my kids, has been going on for quite a while, though not in the legal sense. It has been her using them to get to me, and that I will no longer tolerate. In the coming year, I will be filing for full custody of them. They want to be with me, and this sitch has gone on long enough. I know that they love their mom, but she is not returning that love to them, and they know as well. As the person that I am, I would never deny my kids the rights to have a relationship with her, if they wanted it. I know that she says that she would never want to see them, again, if they lived with me, but I have to believe that in time, all her wounds will heal, and she will wake up, and see that a relationship with them, doesn't mean that she has to have one with me. Only time will tell, who knows where her head/heart is, I can't worry about that now.
Sorry to go on, about my sitch in your thread, like this, but I hope through, what I have written you can understand, that things do get better. Time and God does heal the wounds. You are in my prayers, take care.
