All hell another one. Yes welcome to hell for the Holidays! I agree with bearsfan, a pandemic seems to have erupted in the Northern Hemisphere.

Im sailing the same ship. I think the best thing right now is to keep going to counsoling, read books, and be the best father you can be. Work on your self and try not to worry about what your wife is doing. Give your wife lots of space to let her figure out herself. Trust me she'll figure it out.

Trust me the first weeks are pure hell but we all are going thru it or have been thru it. It will get better but you gotta concentrate on yourself and your children.

Good luck!


Married to wife 4.5yrs
1 step daughter - 7yrs old - Love her to death
Seperated 10/28 - Present