I haven't been successful at DB'ing - it seems too difficult for me - tried going dark, detaching, etc. though I probably got taken unawares many times and made mistakes in this regard. With the kids and my work there's no time left for "GALing".
I used to make those excuses, too. My best advice came from Michele: 'Don't give yourself an out'.
Just do it.
You can.....and it feels great when you do.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
