It's great that you're feeling so good and seemingly clear on your sitch. Your old tree sounds so neat. What a special holiday tradition. Still love following your posts. I can SO relate to you on your Mom. Mine can be the same way. Way to go on your boundaries. That's what ya gotta do, and it works. Keep up the good work, friend.
Love, f21
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.