ok...so now that I have had my big boy britches firmly adjusted...thank you all. I am moving my string back to the infidelity page.

W said the other day that if she had the support she would move closer to her job (in with OM?). This scares the living sh** out of me because my kids are young and very impressionable. I can't lose her and them at the same time and I refuse for some other man to raise my kids.

mcol
Me: 34 Deployed
W:32 (EA started Oct 07)
S:8
D:3
S:18 mos
ILYBNILWY-12/14/07
Request for backdated separation 12/14/07
Top areas to work:
1) Communication
2) Repairing me, focusing on me