but my convos with her end up with me basically arguing WHY H should/would want to end our M. It's really odd.
Heh, I guess I should have worded my statement better; that is EXACTLY what happens with my mom when it comes to discussing my H. All I hear from her is how I stayed and tried and he is self-centered, blah blah blah. I try to be even-handed and take reponsibility for my part of the demise of the marriage and she will just press and press. So I have to argue about how I'm not perfect; that my thyroid condition really took it's toll; that I didn't have flexibility when it came to who we celebrated holidays with; and she basically poo-poos what I say. I don't know WHY it makes me SOOOO mad, but it does.
Congrats on all those positives from your H. Sounds really great. I want to gush, but I won't since you're being so low-key.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
