Tread carefully I think. One of the prblems with my W is she is close to her sisters and at times I have felt bumped out by them. She also has a 24 yo daughter who has had some problems with drinking and being irresponsible. I would get the "my family comes first" line and be accused of being jealous. So this is a sticky situation. I guess I would have to say this: Police your words CAREFULLY for now until things simmer down a bit. I've read that the more that you try to prove them wrong, the MORE right they become in their mind. I read that in DB or Change your life and everyone in it which is an absolutely great read.
