Giggity Giggity.. Giggity Goo

[stumped1245]

Hey jarhead!

Figured I'd take you up on your offer for advice. First off, remind me what PMA (I think that's the acronym) and GALs mean please.

2ndly, here's my question....my husband and I are back together and have been, without him being in an A, since Nov 2005. I sometimes wonder had the H of the OW not called me and notified me of the A, if my H would have quit calling the OW. He states that he loves me and all and has made many great strides in trying to show me he loves me, however, I sometimes wonder if he still chooses me - period.

The thing I keep trying to remind myself is that if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't. However, sometimes, I'm not so certain it's his 'preferred' place to be and that bothers me sometimes.

I guess I'm overthinking. For instance, I'm away on business this week and just left last night. He did come to the airport after hunting ducks all day, to see me off. I texted him when I got here and sent a couple other funny messages, however, he never texted me or called me this morning and when I called him on the way to where I'm working today, he stated he didn't want to wake me up and that that was why he hadn't called me.

I guess my point is, do guys have some need to be ignored or not contacted by their wives to make them think about us? Or, is this just specific to my H? When I called him after I was almost done working today and talked to him on my way to the hotel, he listens and can repeat what I say, but offers no feedback or interaction. However, he'll go on and on about his hunting and what he's going to do and I make certain I stay interested and offer feedback.

I just feel like us being sincerely interested in one another seems so one-sided.

What do you think? Again, hope you don't mind my pestering you.

BTW - GREAT TO HEAR YOU SOUNDING SO POSITIVE! Definitely need to meet other W, even for just friendships as it makes a MOUND of difference when you realize you are someone worth the time.