Bomb,

I don't remember which comedian said it, but it's true. There are 3 stages of life for a woman -- baby, babe and bubba. And while women may think that can trick men with plastic surgery and creams, everyone knows when a woman is over 50. She's a bubba, as sure as a 20 year old does not resemble a 10 year old.

I think your wife is trying to fight aging by seeing herself through the eyes of lovers. That is, the mirror and the camera are no longer too kind, but in the eyes of a lover I am young and beautiful. Nice idea. but the reality is that yeah, they don't mind spending time with her, flirting with her, and even having sex with her. But they are not likely to buy the package. So if she is so foolish as to throw away the life she has, she will have a hard time replacing her marriage. Divorcing dentist is much more likely to date a marry a 30-something than your wife. He knows when he eats dinner with her that she is a grandmother.

The only person your wife is fooling is herself. And maybe you. Cuz the world knows it.