The wife must obey her husband as her husband must obey God. Put differently, God appears to her through the prism of her husband, so she must obey him as if he were God. Following that line of thinking, God may ask you to do hard things you dont like, but it all falls under the umbrella of assumption that he isnt abusive, and even he dosent TELL you --you have to do anything. You have free will. You can leave anytime you want.
I don't understand what you mean. But yes, this has strayed far from LFL's sitch and you don't need to expand.
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you said My respect is grounded on the fact that I know he is, all ego and testosterone related issues aside, he is committed to the facts above all.
That validates the theory. when it comes down too it, you choose to respect him. You choose to remember that even during the ego and testorone issues.
Not really. I respect him because he predictably comes back to the facts after dealing with his ego/testosterone issues (when he has them). If he didn't I'd stop respecting him. Just as he sits out my hormone-related funk, when I get into it. If I decided to make my home there I'm sure he'd lose his respect fast enough.
