Breton, it depends on what your goals are. We all know from reading about MLC that they sometimes need the D to continue their journey. It is up to you if you want more to the story or this is where it ends. For me, my W has to do all the work if she wants a D. I have told her that I will not stop her. I told her that only she wants the D. I still love her. And this is the only way I can show her that I love her. By letting her go.
It still hurt like hell. I am not going to paint a rosey picture. As much as she has put me through and what the children have gone through, it is not what I want.
She shows no interest in me as well. Well, she has started to be friendly with me lately but she has backed off again.
It is okay to prepare for the worst but expect the best. If he says he has filed, be prepared so you can stay strong.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
