I don't think I've postd to you before, and havent been here lately, but, you don't know what he's going to talk about.. could be something totally different. I never guess right. I stew and stew, and I am so happy when I have not jumped the gun, and commented on whatever it was I thought H wanted to talk about. Even when I think he's not talking to me for some reason, and it turns out he was just very very busy. I know, you know your husband better than us, just saying, I usually guess wrong. Try to chill till you find out what it is he wants to, just incase you're wrong. Just because it's been a while, doesn't mean he's going to do anything at all. I kept thinking H would file D after 6 mo with OW, because it's so easy in our state. It's > 3 years living with OW, and he hasn't done it.