here's two for ya! The first is "How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It" by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny. It is Michelle approved! the premise is that talking about your relationship doesn't bring you together, and it will eventually drive you apart. A woman's vulnerability to fear and anxiety makes he draw closer, while a man's subtle sensitivity to shame makes him pull away in response. So when W wants to talk about the R, H is thinking "how did I screw up now" and feels shame therefore pulls away. Anyway, read it and find out the rest. I liked it. The second is "How To Heal A Painful Relationship: And, If Necessary, How To Part As Friends" by Bill Ferguson. It talks quite a bit about forgiveness. It's simple and easy to read it but has some real truths to mull over.
