To me, those are *his* issues. He shouldn't have to run his decision or his thinking on this kind of thing past his wife. He's an individual who gets to make some decisions, even some important decisions, all on his own. Even his wife doesn't get to be inside his head all the time.
Burg, This is fine. I don't disagree with you at all. These were his decisions to make and he should have been the one to make them...no problem at all with that. It just seems that a lot of times IC pushes me to the outside. So when it comes to other stuff...now I'm just supposed to put all this behind me and whole heartidly feel close and believing?
Originally Posted By: Burgbud
Did either of those issues turn out badly for you, Miss IC? I don't know; I'm asking.
Not really an issue of how they turned out for ME. What they did accomplish is undermining my perception of other issues that DO pertain to the both of us. On a personal note...I miss the hockey. It's a big part of who IC is, whether it's him playing or in some other capacity...it's in him. I...I..I can't explain it, it just is.
IC,
I understand that those were reactions, I just want to feel like I'm a part of your life and not just some after thought. You want me to be by your side through things but yet you seem to only want to allow it when it's convenient for you. Well I'm sorry, that does not work for me.
I don't want to be sheltered. I want to be included and be a part of your life, not something you turn to when you want and only when you want. I don't want things sugar coated for my sake. I'm your wife, I'm not a child. You say that you are fine, feel good...OK, I believe you. I'm going to hold your azz to the fire on you telling me in the future if or when that changes. K?
