Hah! And I had to read your post twice! I think this sounds great LWB. I would definitely recommend doing this. However I imagine that there are bound to be things you need to be cautious about (expectations, over-exuberance, pleasing H, etc.)
When my W came to a turning point (as brief as it was) I got wrapped right back up into things and let my guard down. The subsequent blow was devastating because I simply wanted everything to feel normal again. DB'ing has to continue even if you are out for an evening of fun.
I hope others can provide some tips on how to remain vigilant and yet keep your H interested and attracted during the night.
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