I can understand what you are all saying. I myself in my moments of anger lean towards the gender thing. Guess we all have our reasons.
But I am sure of one thing though, being all my life pragmatic, I have learned lately all the paradigms go away once we find that what we thought that could never happen to us, can actualy happen and makes no sense. When it's about love, there's no Mars and Venus, we are all from Earth.
