Okay, back to my normal thread. Thank you to everyone who has provided some insight, opinions and recommendations regarding the pursuit of MC while we are in our current situation (in-house separation, she's involved with long-distance OM, she sees no chance nor has any desire for reconciliation).

For anyone interested, the link to that thread in which I asked for advice is below:

Advice Regarding Counseling

We have left it off with the following:
1) I will be picking up The Five Love Languages (thanks Rob)
2) W and I will attend our first counseling session tomorrow afternoon.
3) I will be taking a self-improvement approach with counseling.
4) W has agreed that we will discuss our goals and C's approach. If our C does not meet either of our requirements, we will scrap this one and find one that will.

Thanks again for the feedback!


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07