Okay, back to my normal thread. Thank you to everyone who has provided some insight, opinions and recommendations regarding the pursuit of MC while we are in our current situation (in-house separation, she's involved with long-distance OM, she sees no chance nor has any desire for reconciliation).
For anyone interested, the link to that thread in which I asked for advice is below:
We have left it off with the following: 1) I will be picking up The Five Love Languages (thanks Rob) 2) W and I will attend our first counseling session tomorrow afternoon. 3) I will be taking a self-improvement approach with counseling. 4) W has agreed that we will discuss our goals and C's approach. If our C does not meet either of our requirements, we will scrap this one and find one that will.
Thanks again for the feedback!
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07