saffie, don't get your whips out for Mr. Ohio_Mark just yet....I am sure he didn't mean it the way you read it. Darn Internet. I can see what he meant that women are naturally going to always be concerned that their children are taken care of and safe. It might be instinct for some women to think that first. Even if a woman thinks that first, it doesn't mean that she won't go out and fight for it herself, like your friend. Its just that initial thought..