Advice regarding counseling

[Michael Mc C]

For example, my primary LL is Touch. My W's primary LL is Acts of Service.

I think that my wife and I will be the same (will pick up the book tomorrow if I can find it). However, if I remember from your sitch, you thought your wife's primary LL was something other than acts of service and it wasn't until she read it that you were both able to determine her true LL.

Maybe the act of going to counseling will get my wife interested enough in our own sitch that she'll start looking into things like this as well - maybe I'll leave some of my books lying around... better yet, maybe our C will recommend some reading.