Saffie -
I meant no offense by that comment. It is what I have been told by a number of different women. They told me (in so many words) that women tend to subconsciously gravitate toward a place of comfort and security for themselves and their children. It's not an intentional behavior; rather, something that they feel inside that pulls them to a safe, comfortable, and secure place.

Sorry... and I am sorry for your loss.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9