Mo:

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I don't think you got the gist of my question. I'm perfectly capable of making up "rules" for myself. I am asking how I can avoid breaking them. Like, one idea I had was that I won't shave my legs. Sort of a vanity chastity belt.


Discipline. How seriously are you taking yourself? Cuz the simple answer is, you decide how much you want a 'thing' (in this instance, I don't want to break my own rules) and then you hold yourself accountable for your actions.

No one and nothing else can do that for you... ??????

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My failure to achieve closure with my divorce is closely linked to my current weak lioness financial situation. It all has something to do with repressed anger causing a shortage of whatever positive emotion lies in the lioness quadrant.


Wow. This seems to me to be the 'hippopotamus in room,' then. Once you figure this out, I don't think you'll ever have to worry again about breaking your own rules.

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