I'm going to wish you luck on that quest of yours...
I have no fantasies about my time, perseverance or intellectual capacity at being able to reach that goal.
Im more happy that I figured out my passion and purpose. Now I can bend it to my will and between the two, hopefully engage in activities that give me happiness.
Thanks for the well wishes.
I'm not sure what it has to do with marriage or relationships... still... it is an extraordinarily interesting undertaking.
There are should bes and wishes in R's. (subjective) and then there is what works. (quantifiable) there are no guarantees. There is no such thing as a lovers oath. Plato