(Paul uses "phobeo", the root of our word "phobia" and is much closer to fear, imo, but I will defer to Young's.)
There are two aspects of this fear, it could be in terror of, or it could be in awe of.
Being In awe of... would closely approximate how women respond sexually to men of power and or fame.
If you want men to be in charge of their M/W tendancies as you and I have so plainly discussed previously, and you applauded me for, you certainly wouldnt expect any less of a woman being in charge of her tendancies. Would you?