SG.
Well done, with the greek. It sounds much better coming from you. \:\)

Paul was never married. It shows.

Its alwasy curious to me when the people start acting like a cat on a hot tin roof at doing what works. There have been a couple of women here who have had much success with looking for the positive and respecting there H, even when he was icky. Many women have said they want to respect their H and trust his judgement. We even had a discussion about a book around here... the surrendered wife I think it was....

It may be easy for you to respect your H, and I am happy for you. Its intrinsically linked to your attraction for him. The women in my life show there appreciation quite effectively for the fact that I require respect.

Are men more culpable for controlling there attraction when it fades then women are? From your comments on disrespecting men who appreciate you for your visual appearance, it would appear so. I understand, I would not trust women who appreciated me for something (like say...money) that could quite possible disappear, and got all ga-ga after testing their reaction to its prescence. After all its not 'who I am'.


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I would hazard a guess women dont FEEL why they have to show respect and honor.


I didnt say this well and I thank you for pointing it out.

What I should have said, was
I would hazard a guess that women dont know why they should show respect when they dont FEEL it.
After all its no fun and a lot of hard work, owning our feelings. Its much easier blaming them on OP actions.