The End or Just a Begining?

[Heimlich]

From your previous post, lay off the sarcasm. She's reaching out to you, if you need time to yourself, tell her. Don't push back, you know that. Also, I'm reading tension in you from having to watch your son all of the time. Can you work out a more equitable arrangement so that you can have some Atlas time?

That's a horrible question to HAVE to ask. A reasonable question TO ask. I think you're absolutely justified in asking that question. Could she be waiting for you to make the first move. Bath with the broom door open. Peeing with door open.Parading around in panties and bra . . . Jump her. See what happens. Just a thought.

Shoot, forgot to add, there's no way to really soften that question, but maybe workign that you're sleeping with everyone that your partner ever slept with, or something like that, might soften that a little bit. Tough one, but you gotta ask at some point. Question for you: Do you feel that moment coming possibly over the holidays? What about just having some condoms on hand in case?

BD