Ann, I really would like to hit him with a 2x4. Unless you're an absolute lunatic in real life, your H needs to make some changes. You're set on creating those changes in him, and that's admirable, but damn, I'd just like to punch him in the head.
I think the Fertel book can really help you. Give it a try.
What's up with the lights? Damn, that sucks. Looking at the other person is one of the best things about sex. Does he not like it in the morning because of the light?
Can't remember if anyone has asked you this, but could your lack of desire be linked to the pregnancy?
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
