If you let yourself get mired in being angry because it appears you are carrying the heavier load, what was meant to be your proving ground will have just become your noose.
Oh THAT is a good one! Print it out and paste it all over the house. That speaks volumes.
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She is really confused & probably starting to feel a little embarrasment/guilt considering I've been doing everything I need/should be doing.
Well that's probably part of it. She's also seriously considering whether or not you'll pull it off, make REAL changes. She's also wanting to hang on to you, not let you go, just in case. She's got one foot in, one foot out. It's limbo. A tough spot that many of us have had to work through. Best thing YOU can do is pray for her, and just keep working on YOU!
You're doing fine so far, I'm really impressed with your attitude, and that should make you feel good because I'm hard to please.
You might want to check out http://www.retrouvaille.org It's an awesome program put on by the Catholic Church but open to anyone. There's no preaching or pressure to convert, just good stuff from people who have lived through the nightmare and reconciled. It helped ME alot.
God Bless,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
