Seriously I love your posts there is no messing around, and you ask the right questions.
I know something is there, but it will take time. She has to do a lot of identity crises issues to deal with. W has never chosen friends well, so things always went bad. When she did pick good friends, oh H finished some other damn school, were moving again. She is pretty resentful about all that. So now she has some good friends, they are all D'ing, had physically abusive spouses. They all like me and wonder what she is doing D'ing, but I get the lonely thing. I have to keep changing.
Unfortunetly, this crises of hers is going to take time, more then I'm willing to stay married for. So for the sake of my S and my financial future, and she agrees with this. After new year we settle, she fixes her head. Then we go from there. Who knows. Told her I would still help her with money and anything else she needs, but I just don't think it wise that we are legally M.
Well she has already called me once and I her once today to chit chat. She asked what is up for tonight. Said "Um, I'm watching our S, why you want to come over?" Sarcastically. Just got a maybe.
