Did she take him back? Did she tit for tat him w/ the OM? Did they decide to work on this? Any chance his current unattractive behavior has her looking for justifications to get away from him? Is he abusive? Is he an addict? Is she part of the problem? Did she work on her part that caused him to want to get away?
But it was he who first broke that most fundamental of all promises. First? Really? How do you know he didnt want to get away becasue she wasnt respecting him and caring from him how he wanted? But HE should 'MAN UP'. Right? we could do the chicken and egg thing all day long. thats not going to get anyone anywhere.
The attraction thing isn't the core problem imo, it's that LFL has a mended tear in the fabric of her marriage, and isn't sure the thread won't unravel on her again.
I completely unequivocally disagree wholeheartedly. She knows he isnt going anywhere again. She is icked out by him. Its all about the attraction.
