IC, where was I on the whole hockey thing? ...in the snowbank!
Where was I when you pretty much told your family to f*ck off? ...in the snowbank!
I don't know how IC feels about those issues but in case he feels similarly to me, I'm going to give him a little proactive backup.
To me, those are *his* issues. He shouldn't have to run his decision or his thinking on this kind of thing past his wife. He's an individual who gets to make some decisions, even some important decisions, all on his own. Even his wife doesn't get to be inside his head all the time.
Did either of those issues turn out badly for you, Miss IC? I don't know; I'm asking.
When it comes to serious health issues, there are going to be things a man just has to handle on his own, but it does seem like he owes it to his wife to keep her in the loop as much as possible since she's (one would hope!) very affected as well.
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