Ok so let's look at this from a DBing standpoint. Right now you have no contact with her and she's not contacted you. So clearly space is something she wants yet it's not yet created an outward change with her. So sending a simple and cheerful Merry Christmas message is a bit of a 180 on the current situation. Once you send the message start the monitor phase. Just remember go into it expecting nothing that way is there is any positive reply no matter how small it'll be a positive for you. Bottom line is you won't know how she'll re-act until you act.
So now the question is how do you send the message? A text message, email or voicemail would be non-threatening for her.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
