But you and FW told them together. Not seperately. I think that telling children only from one parent is unwise, and comes from needing their support, which I believe is another mistake.
Perhaps I read Patrick's sitch wrong Jack. I thought they had sat down together (as FW and I did) and not seperately.
I do agree that it is not so great for one parent to tell the children on their own.
BFM
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