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Okay, so W and I are going out to dinner tonight. Any suggestions of anything I should do differently, or bring up?


You really cleared things up for me....now it's as clear as mud, which is an improvement. In light of what you previously wrote, I don't have a good suggestion as to what you could do differently. Make sure you're fun, happy, confident. Don't be afraid to be sweet to the waitress. \:\) If you've previously been obviously hung up on your wife, then be a little less engaged. If the reverse is true, you've been a little aloof, then tell her she looks nice.

Nothing was off limits to me. I was a big time pursuer. So I suck at this part. You are close, but not close enough. She still needs to take more steps your way. All you can do is be someone she'd be crazy not to chase

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
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